| Esther Parounagian studied to be
a doctor, but chose marriage to Ralph Barnes instead. Ralph
had served with her on the Student Council at high school, attended
Willamette University as she did, but left Salem in 1922 to
earn his Masters Degree at Harvard. Esther, May Queen
at Willamette, graduated with a biology degree in 1923 and then
taught school. In 1924, they were married in the First Methodist
Church.
Esther was the daughter of a Methodist minister, Marcus Parouganian,
an Armenian immigrant who arrived in America in 1887. Her
mother, Clemma Mathews, was a native of Vermont. Marcus and
Clemma had two children; Mary born in 1898 and Ester in 1901.
As a Methodist minister, Marcus and his family moved several
times, but settled in Salem in 1914.
Growing up in Salem, Esther could not have imagined the historic
events she would witness as Ralphs wife. After their
wedding, they moved to New York where Ralph was a journalist
on the Brooklyn Eagle. Two years later, they sailed
for Paris where Ralph had been promised a job on the Paris
Herald. In his three years there, Ralphs assignments
were of international interest: he was a cub reporter covering
Gertrude Ederles English Channel swim and was among
the first reporters to interview Lindbergh in Paris after
his 1927 flight. In 1929 Ralph was sent to Rome with the New
York Herald Tribune. Their daughter Joan was born there
in 1930. The next year found them in Paris again where Suzanne
was born in 1931.
Ralph was transferred to Moscow and Esther brought the two
little daughters home. They stayed in Oregon with their grandparents
when Esther returned to Europe in 1932. The Barnes were a
popular couple in the American group in Moscow, entertaining
as best they could with limited food in a sparsely furnished
apartment. But the larger difficulties were professional:
Soviet censorship and their frequent separations from each
other and their children. They returned to Salem in 1934,
Ralphs only trip home in fourteen years. Esther returned
to Russia in the spring of 1935 and together they moved to
Berlin that fall. Their Aunt Mary brought the children to
their parents there in the summer of the 1936 Olympics. The
family lived there during the fateful years of Nazi conquest,
removing to England in 1939. Suzanne remembers her second
grade year spent on the Sussex coast: blackouts, gas masks
and air raid drills became routine. In May as the Germans
invaded the Low Countries, she heard the guns across the English
Channel.
Esther booked passage homeward. By the time Esther and the
girls arrived safely in New York, Ralph had been expelled
from Berlin because of his report of the impending breakdown
of the German-Soviet relationship. He was only able to get
a visa to Bucharest and he continued his work from Southern
Europe and Egypt. Esther desperately tried to keep in communication
with Ralph, knowing he was depressed and taking dangerous
chances in order to report the news. In August of 1940, Esther
and her daughters were back in Salem, then celebrating its
Centennial. She was shocked to learn that no one seemed aware
of the war in Europe. On November 18, Esther learned that
that her husband had died in a English bomber crash over Yugoslavia.
A widow at 38, Esther had financial problems and a rather
difficult life with her in-laws in the Barnes home. She began
work at the State Library and managed to move into a small
house of her own. In 1946, she married Chester A. Downs, a
family doctor fifteen years her senior. She was active in
Salem cultural activities: the Art Association, Bush House
Auxiliary, Medical Auxiliary, study clubs and Salem Public
Library Board. After his retirement, the couple enjoyed traveling,
but only in the United States. Suzanne believes that European
travel would have been too painful for her mother. Chester
died in 1981: Esther four years later in 1985.
Suzanne remembers her mother as an out-going lady with a
great sense of humor. Although intellectually and artistically
creative, Esther loved reading popular English mysteries,
enjoyed comedians Edgar Bergen and Victor Borge - and TV wrestling.
She loved sweets, Suzanne recalls. I often
take her candy in the cemetery because I know she would be
bored with just flowers.
Written by Virginia Green
Bibliography:
Information about Ester Barnes Downs provided by her daughter,
Susanne Morrison.
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